Last week I took some of my clients to Medicine Horse Ranch to participate in Equine Guided Education activities with horses. The horses show us where we are stuck with regard to fulfilling on our intentions, goals and in being the highest and best version of ourselves. They mirror back to us where we may have stopped being in the flow of our own expansion and alignment.
I have done this powerful work with many groups of people over the last 6 years. One area that I find many people have stopped their own flow is in not allowing themselves to be supported. The willingness to allow ourselves to be supported is part of the new business paradigm that I find makes available a very high level of success and prosperity in a context of ease and abundance.
We lose ground in our business and our life when we don’t ask for support. We are left to put up with discomfort and pain, and have things not work because we fail to be vulnerable and to ask for help or assistance. Often, we are more attached to the struggle and drama of life’s situations than we are open to ease.
The challenge is that asking for support feels so vulnerable. I mean, after all – we SHOULD know all the things we need to do, don’t we? We SHOULD be able to figure out problems and challenges ourselves, right? And doesn’t asking for support mean that we are weak, inept or incompetent?
Here’s the payoff: The minute we ask for help, support flows to us from the Universe and we begin to be given exactly what we need and ask for. The POWER lies in being humble enough to ask for help. When we become open and vulnerable in this way, miracles happen. The right people, places and things show up, and life becomes easier. Every….Single….Time!
Ironically, the very thing we are resisting is exactly what we need to move towards and to embrace.
So I have 2 questions for you to consider right now:
1) Where in your business or your life are you challenged, have something that is not working or have an area where you would like to take things to a whole new level?
2) What kind of support do you need, and when will you take the action to ask for it?
Please do let me know your answers! As always, I LOVE hearing from you.
Much love, Rita